Everyone’s life is full of difficulties and obstacles. When a baby is born, he comes along with the challenges of life. As the man grows up his hurdles also grows up with him. Everyone thinks that their problem is highest among all. But this is not the fact; if we look around us, we would see the people in even more worse conditions. St Augustine said that a man cried for boots till he saw a man with no legs. When we are faced with difficulties, we often get depressed, and there are also few people who commit suicide. In fact, at the time of adverse challenges, we should work with positivity. We should welcome the obstacles with open hands and tackle them with all our power.
Listed are few things that you can apply in your life to overcome the challenges of life-
Stay active – No matter how extreme your difficulty is, you should always stay positive and be focused on the right path instead of negatives. If your way of living is positive, then you are almost succeeded in overwhelming the problem.
Don’t give up– Even if you know that you are losing, and then also you should not rise your hands. Not to worry about losing the game, the main thing is to play till the end. In some cases, you may overcome your problem when there is no chance of winning. Just play and don’t worry about the result.
Try new things every day and challenge yourself- Try to compete first with yourself and then with the others. Set the target goal for yourself and try to break it. Once you break your score, work another chance to break the next.
Ask yourself if you are happy- If there is something that makes you unhappy; try to get rid of that. You might be unhappy due to certain negative things that might surround you. Just try to ignore them and make yourself busy in the things of your interest. Ask yourself at regular intervals whether you are happy. Take the decisions of your own that make the inner happiness. After every turn of life you should ask yourself a question, “Am I happy with my decision?” If you are really happy then just move on, otherwise re-think about the things that make you unhappy.
Smile– A charming smile can lead you a long way. It not only eradicates your problem but also let other people forget their difficulties. Whenever any person laughs at you for your problem, just give them a simple smile. It not only helps you to overcome the situation but also let other to feel ashamed of them.
Do not compare yourself with others– You are unique. Do not compare your life with others. You might be having those certain things which others might not be having. No one’s life is fulfilled. Everyone is stressed in some or the other way. Think of yourself having enough and enjoy your life.
Remember to wish everyone with a great smile. If you find that they are struggling, help them out to overcome their situation and always learn good things from others.